Re: Cumulative Discussion of CCWAA, Volume 3, Chapters I-X
This dynamics is also frequently present in children who are brought to a therapist because of their "passivity." As they become more active, in the saftey of the therapist's office, their initial expressions are usually aggressive, revealing the previously "covered up" resentments toward authority figures. Their activity is easier to increase, than any social interest at this point. When their aggression is met with understanding and empathy, they are often confused, and may increase the attacks to test the territory. Gradually, the persistent good will of the therapist may penetrate their well-honed defenses, and reach an under-fed appetite for warmth and connection. Some children simply need to be enjoyed by an adult for some period of time, to counteract the long-term irritation and rejection of their circle of adults.
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