Hi I am new here I am looking to get some help to avoid paying a councelor I am a very depressed mom of 2 and my husband constantly tells me that I have no reason to be depressed.. This is the situation: my husband is bi I feel that is fine but he never discusses stuff with me as far as him going to meet someone off the internet the bills you know the things married couple should do then he treats me like a kid and his slave... It hurts me and the last time he went off to meet a gay guy he never used protection, now I don't mind him meeting and doing his thing but I do not want him to give me any std's or my kids what should I do...